Hi, I’m Athol. Author, Thinker and Coach.

Helping you to attract your wife, beat affairs, breakthrough relationship blockages and get you laid like tile.

I've helped hundreds of 1:1 coaching clients, and thousands more through my books, blog and the Married Guy's to Wife video series.

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Recent Blog Posts

Building Attraction in a Wife Whose Love Language is Acts of Service

(A mostly the same transcript of the video, I do edit for readability.)   Hi there, my name is Athol. This is Ask Athol Anything, where I play smart guy on the internet answering your questions about love, sex, happiness and anything. If you have a question for me, you can send it to askatholanything@gmail.com. So […]

Ask Athol Anything: New Dad Can’t Do Anything Right?

So here’s the question for today. “Ever since we had a baby I feel like I can never do things the way my wife wants me to. I try to help the best I can but she’s always insulting me and telling me I did something wrong. it really hurts me when she says those […]

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Ask Athol Anything: The Nice Guy and the Good Girl are Making the Same Mistakes

(A mostly the same transcript of the video. I do edit for readability and upon occasion, intelligence.) Hi there, my name is Athol Kay. I play smart guy on the internet, answering your questions about love, sex, happiness and anything. So let’s jump to it. This this episode I’m going to follow on from the […]

Ask Athol Anything: Why Did You Stop Focusing on Just Men and Turn Co-ed?

(A mostly the same transcript of the video. I do edit for readability and upon occasion, intelligence.)   Hi there, my name is Athol Kay and this is Ask Athol Anything where I play smart guy on the internet answering your questions about love, sex, happiness and anything. So let’s jump to it. This is […]

Ask Athol Anything: I Dumped My Wife and Now I Want Her Back

Here’s the question: “I’ve been thinking about my ex-wife ever since I left her. I was trading her out for the bigger, better model. It was wrong. I talked to her about having sex with her from the day we split. She got with a much younger guy when we split. I want her so much. I […]

Ask Athol Anything: Lessons You Have Learned (Becoming More Mercenary)

Hi there, welcome to the show. My name is Athol Kay, smart guy on the internet answering your questions about love, sex, happiness and anything. So let’s jump to this one. And firstly this is a very long question of which the first two paragraphs are basically praising me that I have helped change this […]