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Recent Blog Posts

comfort link chain of seduction

#38 Comfort – Third Link of the Chain of Seduction

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is The Chain of Seduction. Today we’re following along in the series where we do each of one of the six links in the Chain of Seduction, and today we are up to the third link, Relationship Comfort. If you can remember from some of the […]

attraction link chain of seduction

#37 Attraction – Second Link of the Chain of Seduction

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is The Chain of Seduction. Today we’re continuing the series where we talk about each of the six links in the Chain of Seduction and today we’re up to the second link, the Attraction link. If you can remember back to the earlier videos, the Attraction […]

physical link chain of seduction

#36 Physical – First Link of the Chain of Seduction

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is The Chain of Seduction. Today we’re starting the series where I go through each of the six links of the Chain of Seduction and talk about each link in a little more depth. Today is the Physical, the first link in the Chain of Seduction. I […]

what is the map

#35 What is the MAP?

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is The Chain of Seduction. In today’s video I’m going to talk about the MAP, M-A-P the MAP. I’m doing this because I’ve not really talked about it on YouTube. I’ve talked about it in both the books that I’ve written as a central theme. I […]

Loving the Opposite Sex is Your Default Setting

#34 Loving the Opposite Sex is Your Default Setting

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is The Chain of Seduction. Today I’m going to talk about love. Just plain old boring old simple old love. One of the criticisms or complaints I’ve had over the years is that by going into the biology of the Three Love Systems, and saying it’s all about testosterone, estrogen, dopamine […]

first dates

#32 Meeting Someone for the First Time

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol Kay and this is The Chain of Seduction. Today I’m going through the Chain of Seduction showing why everything happens in the order it does. I’m doing it as if you’re meeting someone for the first time, where you’re seducing them into a sexual relationship with you, where you […]