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Recent Blog Posts

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Late Night Relationship Talks are Designed to Wear You Down

I have one really simple piece of advice today. Don’t have deep relationship talks, arguments or debates that go past 11pm. Once you go past 11 at night, everyone gets tired and cranky, it’s harder to pay attention to what is going on, people get worn down and the relationship talks typically go nowhere. It’s almost […]

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My Heart Attack and Three Monkeys Monday

(Transcript minor edits from the video) I might as well start with the dramatic news, which is in late March 2016 I had a heart attack. I am very, very fortunate that I live about ten minutes away from Connecticut’s main teaching hospital. I came reasonably close to dying but I didn’t actually code all […]

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New Video Series: Nice Card Mean Card

Hi there! The all purpose quick wave of the flag that the new video series Nice Card Mean Card: How Nice Men and Good Women Can Win at Relationships is out. 36 short videos, coming to just under four hours of total video. You can watch the first few videos for free on Vimeo. We […]

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Three Monkeys Monday #3

Hi this is Athol, and this is Three Monkeys Monday number three on February 15, 2016. The truth is, this week I really struggled. I pretty much like doing the whole exercise thing outside, getting lots of walking in. This week it’s been as cold as 0F, which if you’re in the rest of the […]

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Three Monkeys Monday #2

Hi there, this is Athol and this is Three Monkeys Monday for February 8, 2016. (I got the month right this time!) Last week I had three things I wanted to do: I wanted to check on my Draft2Digital stuff, I wanted to focus on exercising, and I wanted to do some scripting. The first […]

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Three Monkeys Monday #1

  Hi there, this is Athol and this is Three Monkeys Monday. These are the episodes where I’m going to be talking primarily about myself. I’m not going to be trying to look to teach anything or impart any great new information. These episodes of Three Monkeys Monday are really about focusing on myself, what […]