Hi, I’m Athol. Author, Thinker and Coach.

Helping you to attract your wife, beat affairs, breakthrough relationship blockages and get you laid like tile.

I've helped hundreds of 1:1 coaching clients, and thousands more through my books, blog and the Married Guy's to Wife video series.

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Recent Blog Posts

why is sex everything

Why is Sex EVERYTHING?

Hello beautiful people. My name is Athol, talking about marriage, relationships and getting what you want from them. In this episode I’m going to answer the question many women have which is, “Why is everything about sex to guys?”  Why are they always thinking about it, why is it so freaking important to them, and […]

mutually assured lack of communication

Mutually Assured Lack of Communication

Hello beautiful people. My name is Athol, talking about marriage, relationships and getting what you want from them. In this video I’m going to talk about a problem I see once in a while, all to do with following advice about minimizing communication patterns. This advice is out there for men, and it’s out there […]

not the end of the story

This is NOT the end of Your Story

Hello beautiful people. My name is Athol, talking about marriage, relationships and getting what you want from them. This episode is going to be slightly different in that I’m primarily talking about myself from me to you, seeing today is a fairly emotionally intense day for me. Today is the one year anniversary of my heart […]

do the thing

When to do THE THING

Hello beautiful people. My name is Athol, talking about marriage, relationships and getting what you want from them. Today’s episode follows along from yesterday’s episode where yesterday I talked about not doing The Thing, i.e. going from some sort of major breakup or divorce and then immediately jumping into a new relationship. In this episode […]

don't do the thing

DON’T DO THE THING

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol, talking about marriage, relationships and getting what you want from them. In this episode I’m going to talk about one of my stock pieces of advice that I tell many, many people which is not to do The Thing. The Thing is after a divorce or a major relationship […]

missed red flags promote bad behavior

Missing Red Flags Promotes Bad Behavior

Hello beautiful people. My name is Athol, talking about marriage, relationships and getting what you want from them. Yesterday I did a story time about red flags I noticed in a dating relationship of mine. This episode is going to be a little more onto the theory behind it, why they’re so important, why you must […]