Hi, I’m Athol. Author, Thinker and Coach.

Helping you to attract your wife, beat affairs, breakthrough relationship blockages and get you laid like tile.

I've helped hundreds of 1:1 coaching clients, and thousands more through my books, blog and the Married Guy's to Wife video series.

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Recent Blog Posts

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Three Monkeys Monday #1

  Hi there, this is Athol and this is Three Monkeys Monday. These are the episodes where I’m going to be talking primarily about myself. I’m not going to be trying to look to teach anything or impart any great new information. These episodes of Three Monkeys Monday are really about focusing on myself, what […]

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Stop Being the Amazing Butler Chumpdaddy

    I ran into a situation with one of my coaching clients, and I’ve seen this now a few times, where you’ve realized that you’re late to the party with the family structure and organization being chaotic. You do that thing where you go to work and you come home and the kids are […]

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Why One Dimensional Marriage Coaching Fails and Three Dimensional Succeeds

Most people who come to me, read my books, or watch the videos are looking for specific advice for a specific problem. They come in saying their relationship is at the bottom of the scale, and they want to get their relationship up a few levels. They have a specific problem and it exists only […]

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Active Trust vs Passive Trust and Post-Affair Marriage Recovery

In this video I’m going to talk about the difference between Passive Trust and Active Trust, with special reference to what it’s like after an affair situation, and why the difference between the two of them is so important to know. Passive Trust is sort of the default setting where you just trust someone. They […]

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The Three Ways You Must Mate Guard

 (This is the video transcript with a minor editing pass for readability) In this video we are going to talk about mate guarding…what it is, how you do it, how not to do it and clean up some of the confusion that’s out there. I see a lot of different advice on mate guarding that […]

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Book Updates, Price Drop, Kindle, iTunes, Nook and Kobo

This post takes the video transcript as a rough draft and is edits for readability. Hi there, I have three books published and I want to catch you up on my approach to pricing, which retail platform my books are on and my general book marketing strategy. It’s going to explain why I have changed […]