Hi, I’m Athol. Author, Thinker and Coach.

Helping you to attract your wife, beat affairs, breakthrough relationship blockages and get you laid like tile.

I've helped hundreds of 1:1 coaching clients, and thousands more through my books, blog and the Married Guy's to Wife video series.

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Recent Blog Posts

how to get him to understand no

#58 How to Get Him to Understand NO

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So let’s jump into today’s reader question. “I am divorcing my abusive ex-husband. I have a no contact order from the courts except for practical matters per written message.” (I assume that’s to do with the kids.) “He just asked if we can […]

settling vs true agreement

#57 Settling vs True Agreement

  Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So today I’m following along with a series of thoughts that I had immediately after shooting yesterday’s video, about the difference between wedding vows and the True Agreements that people make when they decide to get married. Like what’s the bedrock fundamental […]

wedding vows vs true agreements

#56 Wedding Vows vs True Agreements

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. Let’s talk about something I’ve now seen three times in the last two days during coaching calls and that’s what I call the True Agreement. What I mean by True Agreement is on one hand you have wedding vows. For richer, for poorer, for better, […]

the power of intention

#55 The Power of Intention

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So today I’m going to talk about I guess myself. Part of this daily vlog thing is me teaching you guys how to build Relationship Momentum, how to get the marriages and sex lives that you want. But it’s also abut me on the journey […]

mutual submission deadlocks

#54 Mutual Submission Deadlocks

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So today I have a reader question and let’s jump to it “Please expand upon the dual submissive/ dual responsive deadlock. How do you break that without either party feeling unfulfilled? I know that the LGBTQ community is much more aware of that […]

how bad was the cheating

#53 How Bad Was the Cheating?

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. Today I’m going to talk about a concept I’m starting to kick around inside of my own head. I’d love to get your feedback on it and if you think I’m missing something or it could be tweaked I want to know, leave […]