Hi, I’m Athol. Author, Thinker and Coach.

Helping you to attract your wife, beat affairs, breakthrough relationship blockages and get you laid like tile.

I've helped hundreds of 1:1 coaching clients, and thousands more through my books, blog and the Married Guy's to Wife video series.

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Recent Blog Posts

wedding vows vs true agreements

#56 Wedding Vows vs True Agreements

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. Let’s talk about something I’ve now seen three times in the last two days during coaching calls and that’s what I call the True Agreement. What I mean by True Agreement is on one hand you have wedding vows. For richer, for poorer, for better, […]

the power of intention

#55 The Power of Intention

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So today I’m going to talk about I guess myself. Part of this daily vlog thing is me teaching you guys how to build Relationship Momentum, how to get the marriages and sex lives that you want. But it’s also abut me on the journey […]

mutual submission deadlocks

#54 Mutual Submission Deadlocks

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So today I have a reader question and let’s jump to it “Please expand upon the dual submissive/ dual responsive deadlock. How do you break that without either party feeling unfulfilled? I know that the LGBTQ community is much more aware of that […]

how bad was the cheating

#53 How Bad Was the Cheating?

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. Today I’m going to talk about a concept I’m starting to kick around inside of my own head. I’d love to get your feedback on it and if you think I’m missing something or it could be tweaked I want to know, leave […]

timelapse lol

#52 Timelapse LOL

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. So today’s task for me is to catch up on the massive backlog of turning the video transcripts into blog posts. I think I’m up to video 52 and I’m up to number 43 for blogs. My wife very kindly does the video […]

don't carry people through life

#51 Don’t Carry People Through Life

Hello beautiful people, my name is Athol and this is Relationship Momentum. And today, lucky you, we’re going to have a World of Warcraft metaphor story. I know you love them. Watch everyone click away. Pay attention. It’s going to make sense. Okay, once upon a time, going back all the way to Vanilla World […]